What should I say to some one that just lost a family member or close friend?

Answer by  Brett (7986)

The best thing to say is that you are sorry for their loss, and that if there is anything you can do, you are there for them.

Answer by  DevoutCatalyst (441)

It entirely depends on your relationship with the bereaved. If you are close friends with this person some of the other answers provided will sound fake and disingenuous. If you're merely a loose acquaintance or distant relative, "I'm sorry for your loss etc. " would suffice.

Answer by  shokahoka (10)

My sincere condolensces on your recent loss. If there's anything that I can do to help, including just sitting and listening, please let me know. I am here for you.

Answer by  answerqueen (564)

I am so sorry for your loss. She was such a great lady. If there's anything I can do, don't hesitate to call me, day or night.