How do you go about ending an affair?

Answer by  swampy02 (145)

If he seems to be the type that would go and tell your husband, you need to tread softly. Be cordial and just try to end it as quietly as possible. Try to explain to him that it was a mistake and you want to work things out with your husband, and apologize. Try to not put blame on him.

Answer by  StaceyW (251)

You have to cut all ties with this person. Explain to them that you made a terrible mistake and cannot be in contact with them at all.

Answer by  flower2 (143)

You cannot really stop this individual if he wants to tell your husband. Tell him the truth, that you would like to end your affair and see how he reacts. If it seems like he is taking it hard and may tell your husband, you may want to go and tell him first.