How do I deal with my emotions after cheating on my husband?

Answer by  SashaDarkCloud (5764)

You will have to find the deeper reason as to why you cheated on him in the first place. Before he or yourself can forgive you, you have to see why you did it so you don't do it again. It seems that you do know it was wrong and do have remorse for it. That is the first step.

Answer by  rockochazz (6)

Break them down to their basic framework. If you haven't come clean with him first, you won't be able to do this. Marriage is based on trust, and no matter what you tell yourself, that trust is now shattered. Come clean and hope your husband is forgiving and strong..

Answer by  jad00 (20)

The solution to this would be some counseling. Talking to someone about your emotions will help but you have to let the person know what your dealing with. You have to be understanding as well as the person listening as you may not always agree with what they have to say about your problems. Letting your emotions out will help.

Answer by  Kurt (4579)

You will need to remind yourself that it was a mistake that was made that does not have to be repeated and work on improving the relationship with your husband so you will not be tempted to do it again.

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

It's going to be a rough road ahead of you. Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone. Your husband may not ever forgive you. I suggest you get some therapy to help sort out your feelings. Sometimes talking to a stranger without bias helps out a lot.